The best things in life aren't things but they help. Valentine's Day gift guide

My suggestions...

Bais Candle from Diptyque. Reminds me of Santa Barbara.

Leopard loafers from Louboutin

Gold box from French designer Line Vautrin from 1stdibs.com

love these blue plates from Oscar de la Renta

Are you crying yet? I wanted to get this for my daughter in case anything ever happened to me but I can't bring myself to do it.

Vintage 1949 first edition of the book The Mating Season available at taigan.com

I don't want to know anyone who wouldn't want a membership to the Metropolitan Museum Of Art.

Love these pajamas from Olatz.com

I'm letting all of you in on a little secret… This is the best perfume in the world. Serge Lutens koublai khan available at the Palais Royale in Paris.

Wifey tee–shirt at ilycouture.com

Super cool sphere ice molds from taigan.com

I cannot live without a hot water bottle every night here in chilly Paris. This one is adorable from giftshop.bhf.org.uk

Mommy–daughter necklaces! Think Gracie will wear hers? Etsy.com

Pink Fortuny pillow! Oh my! bviz.com

Love love love these candles in ceramic boxes from jaysonhome.com

Dolce and Gabbana nail lacquer

I would open this box, lick every single chocolate and not share with anyone. www.cluizel.com

Fabulous yet superexpensive teapot. www.mariagefreres.com

ex voto… Nothing more romantic that this

Codognato ring from Venice,Italy

Gold address cuff bracelet Yves Saint Laurent...obviously. So that's the list. Wondering what to get the special man in your life for Valentine's Day? Nothing. It's not about him. XOXO