tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post4194238968137682143..comments2024-03-18T23:20:47.856-07:00Comments on Have Some Decorum: Dear Fat Fuck,Gracie O'Connellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12302386881784595481noreply@blogger.comBlogger153125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-16536288383960951592016-05-27T06:41:06.907-07:002016-05-27T06:41:06.907-07:00'Luxury is a spiritual necessity.' Coco Ch...'Luxury is a spiritual necessity.' Coco Chanel <br />And for a person in your predicament I'd say you have a need, a very huge one. That someone begrudges you this simple joy, when you are coping with ALS is beyond shabby. Let them walk (sit in a wheelchair) one day in your shoes, and let's see what they'll have rage gumption to write after that. I bet you the farm that Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432772775131374710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-76875351335203711982015-05-15T16:54:03.171-07:002015-05-15T16:54:03.171-07:00You are awesome, beautiful, and inspiring...sendin...You are awesome, beautiful, and inspiring...sending so many prayers your way. xoxo,<br />Laura Laurahttp://pnb.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-16098378647411660222015-03-05T22:08:28.383-08:002015-03-05T22:08:28.383-08:00Hear Hear all the way from Sweden!! //CharlotteHear Hear all the way from Sweden!! //CharlotteAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09915792300819394285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-53856289968197426242015-01-15T01:54:30.832-08:002015-01-15T01:54:30.832-08:00I want a cashmere sweater with "you fat fuck&...I want a cashmere sweater with "you fat fuck" on the back- put that on your "go fund yourself" box and We'll all stand united around you.<br />Haters gonna Hate but you know - you have a "posse" of fans and fighters cheering you on. I want to throw doughnuts at anonymous downers.<br />XO<br />PvE/pvedesignpve designhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03527745630303158002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-35007985337469941902015-01-12T09:19:41.488-08:002015-01-12T09:19:41.488-08:00TOUCHE' Ellie, no man knows what another man s...TOUCHE' Ellie, no man knows what another man suffers ~ much love to you Ellie ~<br />I feel so blessed to have found your blog ~ XOXOBlisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18441411265001819862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-86305088143554687072015-01-11T09:19:43.866-08:002015-01-11T09:19:43.866-08:00Dear Ellie,
Bravo to you. You put everything in pe...Dear Ellie,<br />Bravo to you. You put everything in perspective, and you cannot believe how I appreciate you for this. You have a combination of dignity and humor, that I can only hope to aspire to. I so look up to you.As said, we have your back. Way to go, girl1 We are lucky to have "your voice". Thanks so much, Robin in UmbriaRobin in Umbriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11429875457770527234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-4766505852893501822015-01-10T05:09:12.854-08:002015-01-10T05:09:12.854-08:00Enough said..........you killed it! Well done xxEnough said..........you killed it! Well done xxCandlewick5https://www.blogger.com/profile/17231105937338858016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-46986544779029028072015-01-02T05:42:22.169-08:002015-01-02T05:42:22.169-08:00I enjoyed this post so much. What a lesson, you...I enjoyed this post so much. What a lesson, you've humbled us all.<br />Thank you!Milenanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-42877103590683763072015-01-01T09:02:33.556-08:002015-01-01T09:02:33.556-08:00Ellie, you are amazing and FF is just to be pitied...Ellie, you are amazing and FF is just to be pitied. I don't understand why someone had to write so negatively, if you don't like a blog you can simply not visit it again, not follow it and move on. your posts bring lot of fun and joy to many people, something FF appears not to appreciate or understand. Just because your friends have set up a donate page on your site doesn't mean you Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01602210222188402644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-2774906375686021092014-12-31T18:24:05.353-08:002014-12-31T18:24:05.353-08:00Dear Ellie,
This is hard for me to write because I...Dear Ellie,<br />This is hard for me to write because I feel so sorry about all you are going through with your illness. I am happy for you that you got to go to Ralph Lauren's Restaurant and Chanel's apartment 'cause I would really enjoy going there too. I also admire and love the fact that you don't take no crap from no one! After reading much of your blog, I had the courage Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-19416180839434899662014-12-31T14:39:23.248-08:002014-12-31T14:39:23.248-08:00Well, I don't understand mean and I don't ...Well, I don't understand mean and I don't understand rude and I sure don't understand anonymous. What I do understand is that you are making the most of every minute you have with the ones you love and are also willing to share your insights with all of us who love to read your blog. You hang in there Ellie and I am hoping for 2015 to bring you blessings beyond compare. Happy New marsha cannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10241159562998431912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-38297342673155817762014-12-31T10:39:33.690-08:002014-12-31T10:39:33.690-08:00I'm so sorry anyone made you feel so awful. Yo...I'm so sorry anyone made you feel so awful. You don't deserve that. Bravo for defending yourself, I know if it was me I wouldn't have felt better until I got it off my chest too and done just what you did. <br /><br />Praying for you and your beautiful family from Indiana, USA <3Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06422147072679821048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-54361340858408127632014-12-31T05:29:23.490-08:002014-12-31T05:29:23.490-08:00You should not have wasted your time. You should h...You should not have wasted your time. You should have written another blog post, so that those that love your stories could have enjoyed. <br />That being said, I hope anon feels a mistake was made and is apologetic, if not, more power to you for at least trying to show her the error of anon's ways. You are a bigger person.MaryBethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15547321109503148189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-39572799444211385212014-12-30T21:23:34.685-08:002014-12-30T21:23:34.685-08:00Bravo! On wards and Upwards to you in 2015, Ellie...Bravo! On wards and Upwards to you in 2015, Ellie!Pam Willshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16095667334507589160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-5212933160295993602014-12-30T21:16:22.678-08:002014-12-30T21:16:22.678-08:00Hi Ellie,
I'm Judy and found you through The G...Hi Ellie,<br />I'm Judy and found you through The Gardeners Cottage. This is my second time commenting on a blog. The first time was on Dec. 18th when I read those horrible comments on Janet's blog and told Janet that after reading your blog I realized that I need to be more thankful! I signed my comment to her annon but now I realize the importance of signing my name!<br />I wish you andAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-9581906385980949572014-12-30T19:19:15.685-08:002014-12-30T19:19:15.685-08:00Ellie,
My thoughts echo all the support and love ...Ellie, <br />My thoughts echo all the support and love expressed so eloquently by all who have commented about this. <br />Xx, CatherineCatherinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-86078204851721702332014-12-30T18:49:48.846-08:002014-12-30T18:49:48.846-08:00OMG, this is absolutely hilarious on YOUR part, El...OMG, this is absolutely hilarious on YOUR part, Ellie; of course, it's absolutely appalling on Fat Fuck's part! I've just recently found your blog and wanted to write you after the very first post that I read. I didn't only because I was so overcome with emotion about your medical situation that I hardly knew what to say. Oh my Dear girl, (I'm almost 70 so I feel I can callLeila Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15191271445102402452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-64222662659049419602014-12-30T17:06:38.894-08:002014-12-30T17:06:38.894-08:00Ellie, we have never met, but I read every essay y...Ellie, we have never met, but I read every essay you post. I can truly say I love you and am a better person for having found you and your blog. Let the fat fucks of this world wallow in their self-proclaimed "high ground of ignorance"! Merry Christmas......Happy New Year, dear one! Angela MullerCleo from Jerseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03584638749121773172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-20349449973500182922014-12-30T17:05:20.006-08:002014-12-30T17:05:20.006-08:00I found you via the gardeners cottage. I love the ...I found you via the gardeners cottage. I love the term fat fuck, fat fucker, fat fuckeraroo...The person that posted is obviously ignorant in the ways of your illness. I hope you feel better now, try not to let it get under your skin, that was their intent. jeanneJeannenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-31238027155949668462014-12-30T17:01:32.558-08:002014-12-30T17:01:32.558-08:00So Fabulous! I hope (no, I know) you are feeling a...So Fabulous! I hope (no, I know) you are feeling all the love and support, Ellie. I just met you and I was indignant when I read FF's comment. I love your spirit. Looking forward to reading your next post. Happiest of New Year's to you and your family.Lisa Leonardnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-19560106626384917692014-12-30T16:46:53.037-08:002014-12-30T16:46:53.037-08:00This post is exactly why I love you AND your blog!...This post is exactly why I love you AND your blog!!!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15665968289076381427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-84348742668320385292014-12-30T15:35:58.762-08:002014-12-30T15:35:58.762-08:00I have not yet been able to put into words all tha...I have not yet been able to put into words all that you offer in your blog, but the bottom line is that it is life affirming in unique and true ways. I have nothing but pity for a reader who could not see that...and fury that s/he hurt you. Your response is spot on. Love, Leslie Leslie in Oregonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-6165152833268190492014-12-30T15:19:37.462-08:002014-12-30T15:19:37.462-08:00Take a number Katie. She's MY best friend.Take a number Katie. She's MY best friend.Jen Brisickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17015654866557792607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-39796259490505110232014-12-30T15:03:40.894-08:002014-12-30T15:03:40.894-08:00Dear Anonymous (AKA Fat Fuck, AKA FF). How dare y...Dear Anonymous (AKA Fat Fuck, AKA FF). How dare you! Yes, you read it right. How dare you let your cup of verbal venom spill on the spirit of Eleanor O’Connell, AKA Ellie!! This is a human being first, living her life under massive health constraints, with a willingness to share parts of her life with “US”, AKA people who likely have never met her. We follow Ellie because she brings a Joannenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7008662464580606671.post-65927252207684761542014-12-30T14:44:48.154-08:002014-12-30T14:44:48.154-08:00don't hate the haters . pity them for their ig...don't hate the haters . pity them for their ignorance. love you ellie!!!! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17777798628636919465noreply@blogger.com